My husband and I will be celebrating 10 years this July. It has been very difficult. I want something that will represent our lives, our styles, or family. But we are not your normal couple. My husband is in a band. We love Jesus. We love Death Metal, it is a style of heavy metal. We love our 6 kids. And we love food. Oh yeah, we love each other too. But how do you say all that. The cliché wedding ideas are all pretty, perfect styles. We are not pretty and perfect. But the “rock” designs are red and black. Neither of which sound nice to me. So how do I do this? How do I say to my beloved how much I love him and who he really is. I respect the man he has become. I support his music. And I am so blessed to still be with him.
Who knows how the day will turn out. Most likely it will be loud, we do have 6 kids after all. Most likely there will be humour. And most likely we will walk away still madly in love with one another. After all that is what is all about.